Gulfport,MS 2012

Friday, June 3, 2011

Pool Side Revelations

The pool here on base opened up on last with a huge luau and every since then the Ingrams have been there like clockwork. I get up go to the gym, come home check some emails, do some homework and by 12 noon we are pool side.
Yesterday as I was sitting pool there was a situation and a revelation:

rev-e-la-tion
–noun
1. the act of revealing or disclosing; disclosure.
2. something revealed or disclosed, especially a striking disclosure, as of something not before realized.
3. Theology .
a. God's disclosure of Himself and His will to His creatures.
b. an instance of such communication or disclosure.
c. something thus communicated or disclosed.
d. something that contains such disclosure, as the Bible.


While at the pool, there was a young girl and her little brother who came into pool area together. The little girl who had to be about 7 or 8 walked to the side of the pool and immediately jumped in, the little boy who was like 3 or 4 saw this. He walked to the edge of the pool and was talking to the little girl as she was trying to fix her goggles. I was watching the little guy and thinking to myself the whole time, "I hope he doesnt jump in", and I was also wondering if he could swim. I saw him get closer to edge of the pool , but I didnt say anything because I figured mom was close behind, and plus , I have seen women get really crazy about other people saying things to their kids.

So, as I was doing all of this self talk, the little boy JUMPED in, and I took off. He jumped in with his arms wide open , thinking that the little girl would catch him, but she wasnt even paying attention, she was doing her own thing. The lifeguards (teens) were on the other side of the pool and it would have took them too long to get there so I took off ,jumping over chairs and bags and into the water. When I got in the water the little boy was under with his eyes wide open, reaching out to me, so I quickly scooped him up. By this time the lifeguards had made their way over to me and I handed him to them, so they could check him out. His parents thanked me and were grateful that I got thier little boy.

I didnt even have on a bathing suit, I wasnt planning on getting in the water at all..LOL..I went in fully dressed...LOL.


Thinking about all that had happened yesterday, reminded me of the Fathers Love and how we are as his children:

Many times as christians we find ourselves in situations where we run ahead of him. We want to do something so badly but instead of waiting until we have been fully equipped to do the task, we jump into it head first and find ourselves struggling to keep our head above water. We were tempted by how easy or effortless others made things look, when in fact we dont know what all they had to go through to be where they are.

Unlike me and the little boy, the father knows what we are going to do before we do it and even though he knows we are not ready, he lets us jump in anyway.


He watches as we look at others and think to ourselves that if they can do it, then we can do it. He watches as we put our trust in man instead of him. He watches as inch closer and closer to the edge. He watches as we struggle. But most importantly he HEARS us when we call, and he comes to our rescue!!


We must not get ahead of the father! We must not move until he says move! He knows when its time to be released to do what it is that we desire! He knows the exact time, place, minute and hour, and thats why I love him.

When I think about my own journey to the pool today I realize that it took some time prepare before we went. My children asked to go and I said, Yes. They then got on their swimsuits, and their towels, their goggles etc. They took swim lessons when they were 6 and I know that they know how to swim so I give them a lot of freedom at the pool, but every now and then I have to remind to put on sunblock so they wont get burned!! Wow..that spoke to me just then. Even though we have been doing a thing for years , we shouldnt get so beside ourselves and think that we have arrived...I have heard of people who have been swimming for years drown...some people get to cocky and think they are beyond reproach but find themselves in a situation that they cant handle...believe me , a Lake is whole different than a Pool!!! You cant see all the dangers lurking in a lake! Putting on the full armour of God DAILY, is a must regardless of how long you have been walking this walk. Without the use of sunburn we get burned! We know this but sometimes we think , oh Im not going to be out there long enough to get burned, but the thing is you never know.

Christians find themseleves in some hairy situations sometimes because they thought they could handle it. Please friends let us not think more highly of ourselves than we ought to. Let us gird ourselves up everyday with prayer and the word. Let us be in a position to help others, but let us not be so arrogant as to think we are better than them, because it could just as easily been us. Let us always listen to our Father, and FOLLOW him and not run ahead. We can avoid so many snares if we do! I love you and God Bless you all!

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Summers Here!!








Summer is in full swing at the Ingrams....lol...






When the poles and the bait comes out you know that it is defintely summer time for my family. Im not that into it (thats no surprise) but everyone else it.



To me it seems like people go through an awful lot of trouble just to catch a little fish. My husband spends a LOT of money on all of this fishing gear just to catch something no bigger than my hand. He has all the latest gigs and lures, that are suppose to attract these little fish and yet we most times walk away dissappointed. But Ive come to realize that if nothing else we at least get to spend some quality time together and that overall is priceless.






Welcome Summer....take your coat off and stay awhile!!












Sunday, March 20, 2011

A letter to my blog.

Dear Blog,
I know that you think that I have forgotten about , but I want to assure you that I haven't. Its not for lack of things to write about because, there are sooooo many things going on right now, that I can barely see straight. I have had so many papers to write this semester and that has definitely taken time away from you. Im so sorry! I think about you all the time and I hope to be able to make it up to you soon.
Love,
Kesha

Monday, March 7, 2011

Todays Forecast: Spring Break!


Spring Break is finally here!! I am out all this week and the kids are out Monday-Wedensday as well for Mardi Gras. We dont celebrate the Mardi Gras season but being so close to New Orleans, you really cant help but get into it just a little bit. There are parades going on all the time and Mardi Gras decorations everywhere!! You cant even walk into Wal-Mart without feeling the Mardi Gras Fever. The greeter was dressed up in a Mardi Gras get-up, dancing around with an umbrella to some carnival music and handing beads, and Mardi Gras coins.


I have two midterms next week so after a few days of relaxing, I will have to take the rest of my break to study for them, but right now, its time to Chill.....

Monday, January 31, 2011

Balancing Act


Many are the plans in a person’s heart,
but it is the LORD’s purpose that prevails. (proverbs. 19:21)






With the spring semester starting back and soccer still in full swing it has been a job in itself trying to keep everything balanced. So instead of winging it like I did last semester, I have went back to the methods that helped me when I was first starting at as a wife and mother and that is a PLAN. A plan that include a weekly chore chart and a menu plan. I have been follwing this schedule now for a few weeks now, I actually started it about week before I went back to school and things have been running pretty smoothly. I am posting my plans below, these have been scheduled around my class times, soccer practices and church.



Mondays: Declutter Desk /Water flowers/Sweep porches/clean upstairs hallway and stairs (trash day)

Tuesdays: Dust, Wipe down all light switches door knobs etc with disinfectant sprays..

Wednesday: Laundry / Mop/vaccum floors Grocery Shopping and other Errands (church)

Thursday: Bathrooms (trash day)

Fridays: Deep Clean Kitchen ( oven, pantry, refrigerator, cabinets) water flowers

Saturdays: Laundry/vaccum out cars (soccer games)/ clean out trash cans

Sundays: School clothes ironed for the week/backpacks ready/prepare menus (church)


This list isnt the bible...if I need to mop or dust etc before the proposed date then I do it. Cleaning the kitchen and picking up things daily is a must as well. Its up to you how you do it.

I know it sounds like a lot, but I have family of five and a dog and its a job...but I dont do all these chores alone..my whole family is involved :) takes a village to mess up and takes one to clean up..LOL.



My Menu this week:


Monday- Turkey Burger/Sweet Potatoe Fries/Salad

Tuesday- Herb Roasted Chicken/Brocoli and cheese/Rice

Wednesday- Spaghetti w/Turkey meatballs/salad/garlic bread

Thursday-Leftover Buffet

Friday- Homemade Pizza

Saturday- Polish sausages (grill) w/ onion and green peppers

Sunday- Superbowl finger foods (sliders, dips, treats)

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

A Frugal Female

Coming up in a house raised by a single mother of four children, we often got a lot of "hand me downs". We rarely got NWT stuff (new with tags :)). Someone would give my mom large black trash bags filled with stuff, mostly stuff that was out of season or too little, or things that had little wear and tear on them. My brothers, sister and I would then proceed to put on a full fledged fashion show for mom, so she could figure what we could and couldnt keep. I admit, it was little exciting to get stuff that was "new" to me but I still longed for things that were NWT! I often times thought to myself, when I get "grown", I will never make my kids wear hand me downs or used stuff...HA!!! Boy have things changed!! I know realize how frugal my mom was, she was clearance and second shopper, and as I child I couldnt appreciate how she had to do what she had to do to make sure that we at least had something to wear, may not have been new but hey, it got the job done...
Now with that being said, I am a FRUGAL FEMALE...I dont know if its because my mother was or because I just cant see how buying a lot of Designer, Name brand items for children who can only wear them for one season as being rational or sane!! Not saying that I dont buy new items for myself or for my family because believe me, I do!!!!!!!! Maybe more than I should, but any who...I am writing this blog to share with you guys how my Thrifty Furniture and Fashion Finds....insert applause here......yayyyyyyyyy.. I shop at my local Goodwills and Base Thriftstore as well as Curbside finds..I also find awesome things at the Dollar Tree too!!! I know I know, it sounds foreign to a lot of you but, I promise you will be surprised with what I find!!

So, I want to know if there are anymore Frugal Females or Males out there and do any of you shop in thrift stores or Goodwill etc? Please share, I would love to hear or even see what thrifty treasures you have or find.

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Getting To Happy (Review/Spoiler)


When reading Getting to Happy, honestly the only thing that I could think about was Getting to the End! I literally had to MAKE myself pick it up and finish it.


I sooooo wanted to love this book because I really loved the movie Waiting to Exhale, so I was looking forward to seeing how these women were doing after 15 years. Waiting to Exhale left us all feeling hopeful that these four friends were on their way to finding true happiness but just like the title of the sequel suggest they are STILL trying to find it.


I was dissappointed in how these four strong, smart, successful black women were portrayed in this novel. Savannah is working in a job she loves but is in a "boring" marriage that ends in divorce once she finds out the her husband is addicted to pornography and is having an affair. Gloria ,who seemed to be the only one who is actually happy and happily married ends up a widower when her husband is shot and killed during a drive by while shopping for anniversary flowers at a local plant shop..(whaat...who has shoot outs at Lowes..LOL). Her friends who should have been there to console her, do so at first, but then begin to become more concerned about her weight gain than how she is doing emotionally. I mean the woman just lost the love of her life for crying out loud, just be there!

Robin, who at the end of Waiting to Exhale is left pregnant by Russell has decided to keep her now 16 year old Sparrow (I didnt make the bird references until another character mentioned it). Robin is now a single yet desperate mother who is run over by her daughter. She tries to find love via online dating but it ends badly when she finds out the man she has been corresponding with is married. She does however find love in the end, with Micheal, the same one she dissed in the last book. Bernadine (Bernie) by far was the one that had me the most dissappointed. She is now a pill popping drug addict a habit she develped after James (wesley snipes), turned out to be a complete liar, living a double life, married to two women. YES..the just lay in the hotel bed and hold me routine was a set up..ugh..he played her and took her money.


So there you have it, a divorcee, a widower, a druggie, and single/desperate mother is what you have to look forward to when reading this book. Like it or Love it I guess!!


I have come to the conclusion that when it comes to Terry Mcmillian I like the movie versions better. I have read a couple of her other books, A Day Late and a Dollar Short, and The Interrruption of Everything and I had sort of press my way through those as well, but not like this one. I think that there just have been too many good books put out over the past few years that made this novel so dissappointing.
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